How To Live An Extraordinary Life? (A Complete 7-Step Guide)


How To Live An Extraordinary Life

Living an extraordinary life might sound like something completely unattainable to you. It evokes images of fabulous vacations, gourmet meals, endless free time, and a complete lack of stress. However, in reality, to live an extraordinary life is completely within your means.

To live an extraordinary life, you must:

  • Figure out exactly what you want out of life
  • Not let the opinion of others impact your dreams
  • Step outside your comfort zone
  • Learn and take advice from experts
  • Establish realistic goals
  • Accept that you will fail
  • Act now, do not wait to make changes

Extraordinary is not only about wealth and living a stress-free life. But instead, it is about cultivating a life that will make you fulfilled, healthy, happy, motivated, and productive. As such, the definition of extraordinary varies according to what you value and what you want to spend your time doing.

As you work to achieve your definition of living an extraordinary life, consider the 7 steps below to help you on your journey.

1. Determine What Exactly You Want (What Does An Extraordinary Life Look Like To You?)

The first step to leading an extraordinary life should be focused on figuring out exactly what you want. This might sound like an obvious one.

However, you may inadvertently forget to listen to your own wishes and wants before you embark on a life-changing journey. Additionally, as you spend time with your close family and friends, you often adopt their ways of thinking.

Messaging that booms loudly from media and social media also does not help you find your voice. As such, it is all too easy to get lost in the noise created by the wishes of someone else.

However, there are many great exercises to help tune out the goals and wishes of someone else and determine exactly what you want. One way is to sit down in a calm and quiet environment and make a list of what you actually want.

This list does not have to be limited to what is feasibly attainable, nor does it have to be dictated by grandiose dreams. It simply needs to be a raw and unedited reflection of what you want out of your life.

Once you are done your list, you can start reviewing what you wrote and rank items as per their priority. If learning how to speak Spanish is ranked higher than moving to Bali, then you need to hone in on learning a new language.

2. Never Let The Opinions Of Others Impact Your Dreams

Your loved ones will always have opinions about your dreams and ambitions. Despite the fact that they may be very supportive of what you want to do. This is undoubted because they care and want the best for you.

However, you have to tune out the voices of others in order to find your own passion. Indeed, what works for others may not necessarily work for you. Furthermore, people judge your circumstances with their own biased lens.

In order to avoid clouding your vision with the opinion of others, you will have to learn to tune out opinions. For sure, it is important to listen to and respect the views of others, but you must always go back to what is right for you.

3. To Live An Extraordinary Life, Make It A Habit To Step Outside Of Your Comfort Zone

Stepping outside of your comfort zone is the first step to living an extraordinary life. You might believe that society places limits on your ambition and dreams. However, oftentimes, you place those limits on yourself.

Do you want to pursue a singing career but are too shy to sign up for an open mic night? Maybe you want to grow your public speaking skills but are too scared to volunteer for speaking opportunities at work? Or perhaps, you want to travel solo, but your own hesitations restrain you from taking the plunge and buying that plane ticket.

Everyone has something that they want to embark on, but they are too scared to leave their comfort zone in order to try it out. However, in order to live an extraordinary life, you simply have to do it.

Remove the negative thoughts and hesitation that is running through your head and just do it. Scribble your name on that open mic sign up, take on more speaking opportunities at work, and book the plane ticket.

The more you step outside your comfort zone and keep pushing your limitations, it will become second nature for you over time. As such, you will notice that your comfort zone becomes wider and wider. You will soon begin to realize that you can do a lot more than you initially thought.

4. Listen, Speak, And Take Advice From Experts

Take Advice From Experts

Everyone has someone in their life who they look up to, and who achieved something akin to what they want to achieve as well. Before you commence living your extraordinary life, it is important for you to talk to those experts in your life.

Do you have a friend who is an open mic regular? Maybe you know someone who takes on all of the daunting speaking assignments at work? Do you know someone who traveled solo for months?

Reach out to those people and offer to take them out for a coffee. Come to the meeting with a list of prepared questions. Your questions should be targeted at getting a sense of how they went about overcoming their fears, and the hardships they experienced.

Talking to other people who pursued what you are interested in is the only way to get the real lay of the land. These frank conversations will give you a sense of how things played out for them. Ultimately, the experiences they went through can hopefully provide you with some insight as you embark on a new journey.

5. Establish Achievable Goals And A Plan To Accomplish Them

In order to have direction for how to live your extraordinary life, you first need to develop a step-by-step plan which consists of achievable goals.

For instance, if your extraordinary life consists of losing weight and eating healthier, then you need to break this change down to simple and easy to achieve goals. The biggest mistake that you can make when it comes to goal setting is if you establish unrealistic and distant goals.

When you do this, in a way, you are biting off more than you can chew. As a result, you will feel dejected when you do not achieve your goals.

Start by setting a simple and realistic goal that you can achieve each day. Only increase the difficulty of your goals when you have proved you can accomplish your current ones.

If your goal is to lose weight and eat healthier, your first goal cannot be to drop and unrealistic amount of weight by next week and cut out all sugar effective immediately.

That is a goal that you most likely will not achieve. This will result in you being less motivated down the line. An ideal initial goal would be along the lines of losing some weight by next week (a healthy amount for yourself) and cutting back on chocolate and sugary beverages.

Over time, you can expand your goals to get closer to your long-term plan of losing weight and being healthier. However, it is the small and realistic goals that you can achieve every day that will allow you to accomplish your long-term plan.

Therefore, it is very important to be realistic about your goals, as well as to be realistic about what you can actually achieve in a specific time frame.

6. Accept The Fact That Failure Is Inevitable As You Work To Live An Extraordinary Life

In order to live an extraordinary life, you will undoubtedly have to take some risks. It is very likely that some of those risks will not pay off and will deter you from achieving your ultimate goal.

However, rather than falling into a rut and being scared to try again, accept that failure is inevitable and be willing to try again. For instance, imagine that you finally get the courage to go up on the stage during open mic to sing a few songs.

Rather than wooing the crowd with your pitch-perfect voice, you end up messing up a few lines and draw some blank stares. At this point, you might feel sorry for yourself or embarrassed, and never want to sing in public again.

Despite the fact that you likely want to hide out in your room, this is the perfect opportunity to step it up even more. Failures provide fruitful ground for learning and for bouncing back even stronger than before. You can learn from your failures, often more than your successes.

7. Take Action Now, Do Not Wait To Make Changes

The single most important lesson in living an extraordinary life is to live in the present. By no means are you getting any younger.

In fact, as you read this, you have already aged a bit. Therefore, it is important to act on your dreams right away. There is always an excuse to make as to why now is not a good time to pursue your dream or take on a new challenge.

However, all these excuses often stem from laziness, fear, doubt, or a lack of confidence. You never know how far you can get if you do not try. The best part about trying is that if you fail, you can get back up and always try again. If you don’t try, you will always be living with that regret.

Living an extraordinary life can sound like it is something out of a fairytale. However, an extraordinary life can be anything that gives you meaning, joy, purpose, or hope.

It can be anything that interests you and pushes you further. Once you find what you are interested in and what moves you, the journey is only upward from there. So, use these 7 steps and put yourself on the right track to living your own extraordinary life.


The realization that there are 86,400 seconds each day. What are you doing today, so that tomorrow you are a step closer to where you want to be? If not now, then when?

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Hi, I'm James! I want to help you make the most of your day by providing helpful tips and informative articles on motivation, time management, productivity, and happiness.

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